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deep_digger1984 48 F
0  questions
big cocks - 7/10/2021


Hi everbody .
i was wondering why somegirls are afraid of big cocks when they see it , but when she starts riding she's always horny and she never wants me cum . they really fuck so hard .When i was at school , i once showed a girl my big cock , she ran away , i hold her and gave it to her for a handjob .few seconds later she started a ...

25 response(s), 36 votes
licker695847 76 M
1  question
THE FIRST BITE OUT OF THE APPLE DID IT GIVE POWER OVER MEN - 7/10/2021

I say yes becouse today apple is the women pussy.ALL men are stupid Thay would do any thing for it and the women know that all to well thay set the stander on sex men don't have the say. Thay say the size the men go do any thing to make a biger dick just becouse the women said so. If the women said the dick has to be hit with a hammer to please we men would do it no bull shit we men are ...

9 response(s), 14 votes
anjanee_loog7 42 M
1  question
a dating tip - 7/10/2021

A success story with a question and lessons learned the hard way. Question: perhaps you have addressed this before, but why do women choose unstable "losers" over stable, "good guys" like me? One may noticed this and labeled it the "SPCA" syndrome: "Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Animals." In other words, the woman goes for the ...

16 response(s), 14 votes
rm_Dub1976777 47 M
1  question
Why is it Women want us to chase them, and then complain because we do - 7/10/2021

I saw this question tonite that said, "why do guys think they are better than our hubby's?" LOL, it got the creative juices flowing so I'm gonna answer full here. First of all this IS just an opinion, please do not attack the author if you dis-agree with me, but feel free to post any opinions about whether you agree, or dis-agree, just try to do it in a taste-ful manner, lol. OK, to answer ...

10 response(s), 13 votes
IPLSRU 56 M
1  question
Did you think your Junior High teachers were mean or just needed a good laugh - 7/10/2021

This is one of those questions that I've never asked a lady about but just popped into my head one night.
Remember back when the bra section of the Sears catalog was enough to get you hard?
It always seemed that when you had one sitting in class the teacher would pick you to got to the board. Do you think that they were board teaching a bunch of and just needed a good ...

9 response(s), 17 votes
NG1903 40 F
0  questions
SCARED TO JUMP IN - 7/10/2021

I HAVE BEEN A MEMBER OF THIS SITE OF AN ON FOR ALMOST FOUR YEARS. MY PROBLEM IS THAT EVEN THOUGH I REALLY EWANT TO HOOK UP WITH SOMEONE, I ALWAYS CHICKEN OUT!!! NO MATER HOW MANY TIMES I CURSE MYSELF OUT, OR BUILD MYSELF UP, I JUST CAN'T SEEM TO DO IT.
MY MAIN PROBLEMS ARE THIS: I AM IN A WHEELCHAIR...PERMANENTLY AND I HAVE A YOUNG , SO IT IS KINDA HARD TO GET OUT
...

9 response(s), 14 votes
rm_Readyat10pm 49 M
6  questions
Seperated? What does it mean to you? - 7/10/2021

I am seperated recently. My and I live alone, he stays with me full time. I have filed for divorce and it is moving forward but in the state of MD you have to be seperated for a year before your divorce can be finalized. So I put seperated on my profile but I still hear well you could still be together or you are still married. Well yes I am still married but unfortunately the courts ...

17 response(s), 28 votes
charliem57 66 M
2  questions
Is it OK to cheat? - 7/10/2021

Married for 26 years. Two ... 18 and 22 (both girls). Sex was great and frequent for both of us. My wife decided that sex wasn't important shortly after a youngest was born (that's right I've only had sex 5-8 times in the last 18+ years and nothing in the last 12). She... has been cold, refuses to spend time with me and spends all of her free time reading. I've tried ...

28 response(s), 25 votes
Skittles2001989 36 F
0  questions
the V word - 7/10/2021

is a person a virgen if the have been ?

23 response(s), 36 votes
CheetosPimp 56 M
1  question
Funniest Screen name? - 7/10/2021

What is the funniest screen name you've seen on here? I'm talking about one that made you laugh your ass off, you know the name that you're ticked off that you didn't come up with? I've had this one for a short time and already gotten some laughs. I had a network invite from a hot couple before I could even get into the chat room. So think hard and lets see ...

17 response(s), 37 votes
leo_adonis4u 43 M
2  questions
How to come up with your porn "stage" name? - 7/10/2021

I heard my little cousin (16) talking to a group of his friends about porn names. I listened in thinking it was something malicious. Instead they were saying that you come up with your porn "stage" name by taking the name of the first pet you ever had and adding behind it the name of the first street you ever lived on.
Mine would be:
"Spanky Via Matador"
I ...

39 response(s), 57 votes
rm_bjhead4u 49 M
0  questions
...any recourse for this man? - 7/10/2021

A friend of the family has been harassed for the last fourteen or so years by a woman claiming that her was his.
He's constantly been in court with this woman, had his paychecks garnished, and even went to jail on several occasions over this matter.
Well, if you watch any amount of daytime television, then you know where I'm headed with this...
After refusing ...

12 response(s), 6 votes
Extramist 60 M
5  questions
Your partner's - 7/10/2021

At what point in your relationship with your friend, partner, or significant other do you have a right to comment on how they treat their ?
Obviously, if they are abusing them, you should comment right away; but I thinking more about actions or behaviors that are making their overly dependent upon them and not teaching them to be independent individual. Does that ability come in ...

15 response(s), 14 votes
rm_tina19755 48 F
2  questions
Forcing a woman into a blow job - 7/10/2021

I love my boy friend dearly, but he is really insatiable. When my red flag is flying he wants me lend him my ass which I politely refuse. I am afraid of damaging my anal sphinctre and its elasticity. Next, he insists on a blow job whch I am unable to refuse.
However, it makes me very angry that he is so inconsiderate of my low moods and my menstrual cramps. He wants his jollies at ...

29 response(s), 41 votes
Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Baby Momma Drama - What to do ? - 7/10/2021

Out of the blue today I got a call from my 's mother, M.
Let me give you some background here.
I have custody of my 15 year old S-jr, I’ve had custody of him for the past 10 years. M and I were together when he was born and we stayed together till he was about 6 months old. Shortly after she and I parted company, I lost track of her for a while. When I finally found ...

19 response(s), 20 votes
suzy_screw 34 F
0  questions
Is risking death the final taboo? - 7/10/2021

Ok its like this. I consider myself to be a mature and open minded , fairly unshockable woman. But there is one aspect of the scene that I just cant get my head around. I cant get over people who advertise blatently for unprotected sex. In this day and age where we are at risk of std's that are incurable, why would any woman ( or indeed couple) actively seek out bareback encounters for ...

25 response(s), 41 votes
rm_RI_Goddess 53 F
1  question
I Don't Get It - 7/9/2021

On a daily basis I receive at least one email that has the famous words, "Hey Baby, Wanna F***". Oftentimes the men will also include their with said email. Do men truly believe they will get a response, or better yet, a phone call, from such a email or are they just trying to be annoying? At first I thought that these emails were perhaps associated with age, however, over time I have ...

16 response(s), 16 votes
vivaciousnymph 50 F
0  questions
Does Love really happen on AsianMatchMate.com? - 7/9/2021

Does love really happen on AsianMatchMate.com? I have been a member of other sites and gotten frustrated due to the hesitancy of members to meet in person. The members seem to be content to e-mail and chat for long periods of time, but when you mention meeting in person they stop writting. I must admit the members on AsianMatchMate.com that I have contacted or been contacted by have not been hesitant to meet in ...

11 response(s), 19 votes
rm_meowpurr1000 37 F
2  questions
Why do men go back to their wives? - 7/9/2021

My question is this. Why do some men go back to their wives, even after long separations. Even when the wife was mean to them and there is no in the mix? A friend of mine did this recently and I can't for the life of me figure out what the hell he was thinking. He said for the sake of life and limb it was cheaper to go back to her! Why do men do this??

19 response(s), 13 votes
rm_TeddibareFun 55 F
0  questions
How to get back in the saddle again .... - 7/9/2021

I'm being completely honest here, so please be gentle with me.
I've only slept with 2 men in my life. Rather embarrasing statistics for a woman my age.
My first boyfriend was a complete ass. He treated me very poorly and in the end when I decided I'd had enogh of his abuse, he me.
Next I found my husband. The sizzle in the relationship died and I begged ...

14 response(s), 27 votes
rm_leondarida3 60 F
1  question
Im in a dilema with family and getting on with my life.what do i do - 7/9/2021

Hi im Tina an independent womean in abitof a dilema coz i think im single with no . My family have relied on me coz of that fact. For instance i took 6 months long service leave to travel over seas as i have worked for 20 years. I was due to leave at en do july but my brother met a woman and decided to get married on aug 19. so ive delayed my trip. he met awonderful girl at the nd of ...

17 response(s), 20 votes
here4fun2night 73 C
0  questions
Is it cold feet or game playing?" - 7/9/2021

"I really don't understand and am seeking your opinion." Why would someone go to the trouble of exchanging emails, expressing desire for the things sought after in someones profile, exchange . Then get right up to the point of meeting, then disappear? Is it a game played by some on here? Or do alot of people just get cold feet, and are too embarassed to say so? Or do we have BO...LOL...

48 response(s), 74 votes
CodyJ2 73 M
2  questions
Can a Man Be By a Woman - 7/9/2021

I know there have been lots of topics of this over the years, but how many out there think a woman can a man.I know the percentage will say there is no way it can happen, but i disagree.If anyone like to hear my theory on how, the let me know, and i will gladly tell you something that actually happened to me one night.When i confronted the lady afterwards that she could be charged with , ...

31 response(s), 37 votes
rm_quietman6706 56 M
1  question
Committment issues - 7/9/2021

I found a really nice lady that I would like to get closer too. We are both divorced with and seem to have a lot of other things in common. We both admit that we are looking for new spouses to spend the rest of our lives with. However, when I try to take the relationship to the next level and tell her I love her she starts talking about breaking up! She admits to having an issue with ...

11 response(s), 12 votes
Lookin4Funn6969 41 F
0  questions
Sex Toys - 7/9/2021

At the risk of sounding naive, I'm asking for some help!
I have only owned two vibrators in my life, and both have been purchased for me. They were both very basic, solid colored, very simple vibrators. Two speeds, loud, not too much fun, but got the job done.
What I am asking is for some advice as to what sites are good for finding products online...where have you ...

14 response(s), 21 votes
FanErotic6996 59 M
15  questions
Sexual Solicitations - 7/9/2021

13% = the percentage of youths 13 - 17 surveyed March - June 2005 who received a sexual solicitation online. That is down from 19% in 2000. Statistics from the Center for Missing & Expolited .
I know that authorities are doing much more to combat this now - for those that have or nieces/nephews etc - Do you pass on any advice to their parents or do you discuss this with ...

8 response(s), 15 votes
WileECoyote26 52 M
2  questions
Dating when your over 30 and divorced. - 7/9/2021

When you suddenly find yourself divorced with , what do you do next? After being in a relationship for 10 plus years, you suddenly find yourself alone, and lonely. You long for companionship, and the ability to talk to an adult. Yet, the thought of "Dating" scares the hell out of anyone. For some, being asked, or asking, is something that does not require any effort. Others, it is a ...

10 response(s), 22 votes
luvingcpl4u 67 C
0  questions
Condoms or not? - 7/9/2021

How would you deal with the following: Two very close married couples, with so safety is a priority and neither would do anything foolish to endanger that. Neither have played for a long while (one year and two years) and agree to get tested. Both promise to keep the play between them and their spouses. Would you or would you not insist on condoms?

8 response(s), 8 votes
TheRox333 36 M
11  questions
How do you meet MILFs? - 7/9/2021

I've always had a thing for MILFs since i was a little . My question is, how can i ever meet a MILF? Should i approach them in the same way i would with a girl closer to my age? What's your opinion?

20 response(s), 40 votes
ICUSTILLLOOKING 39 F
0  questions
What do I do in a situation like this? - 7/9/2021

I will be married for 4 years at the end of this month. In this last month i have seen that my husband has been coming to this site looking for a partner. It upsetted my so much. But I created a handle and emailed him. He was totally attracted to me. And wanted to chat, we chatted and he denied being married, he said he had a roommate. We set up a date and he told me where to meet him and I ...

21 response(s), 28 votes